One of the biggest privileges during lockdown (along with no lockdown at all) was a partner you get to spend that quality time you never had with. And with a certain amount of quality time comes more intimate conversations. This might mean that you and your partner are ready to invest in your first sex toy – well, you’ve come to the right place!
Buying sex toys together allows you to have an honest conversation about what it is you both like in the bedroom. This not only opens the doors for a deeper sense of intimacy, but it also means you really question what it is you truly enjoy. To relieve some of that pressure, we will provide you with a guide on our top 10 recommended toys for couples who are looking to get just that little bit closer.
The Satisfyer Double Whale Partner Vibrator is an ideal sex toy for couples looking to enhance their sexual experience without too much difficulty. The gadget is straightforward to use, and increased satisfaction is guaranteed
This powerful toy has two powerful motors and is capable of creating pleasure through the sweet spot, G spot, and his magic stick all at the same time! A truly fantastic device that every couple should own.
- Waterproof allows increased please in the tub or shower.
- The skin-friendly silicone is super smooth on your skin.
- Easy to charge magnetic USB charger. Long-lasting battery. It will never disappoint!
- Eleven intensity levels available make it easy to find the perfect vibration for both partners.
The Rabbit Love Ring is a soft silicone ring designed for shared pleasure. It’s pliable rabbit ears caress her clitoris during wear, providing intense external sensations. The Love Ring features three speeds and four vibration patterns, is USB rechargeable, and is completely waterproof. It is USB rechargeable, and waterproof!
- Crafted from silicone, the ring feels seriously soft on the skin and makes for comfortable prolonged wear.
- Pliable rabbit ears caress her clitoris during wear to provide intense external sensations
- Ultra-ergonomic & travel friendly
- Super-strong power, yet amazingly quiet
- Made from smooth, soft hypoallergenic body-safe silicone
- Easy to clean
The Satisfyer Partner Double Plus is a mid-entry vibrator for couples. It offers simultaneous stimulation of G spot, sweet spot, and the partner's love stick. Its award-winning design is perfect for you both. Take your lovemaking experience to the next level with the soft silicone exterior and ten modes of different vibration settings, allowing couples to find the right intensity smoothly.
The Satisfyer Couples toy plus has a long-lasting battery and double motor which offers increased satisfaction. Tip: Take the toy to the shower to make the most of its waterproof capability.
- Two powerful motors offer increased satisfaction.
- Fully charges in 2 hours using a USB magnetic charger and can be used for up to 65 minutes non-stop.
- Completely waterproof allows stimulation in the bath and shower.
- Skin-friendly soft silicone head.
- Award-winning design
- Ideal for couples
This sensual non-gendered go-to device allows in-the-moment creative play, especially for couples wanting to flex their imagination. With its 180° rotating, soft-silicone head, this multi-toy is comfortably accommodating for all positions.
Application options ensure hours of versatile and exciting play. Thanks to its head, which can be rotated 180°, this ergonomic toy is a perfect fit for all positions. Suitable for both solo play and couples use to enrich your lovemaking.
- 180-degree rotatable head
- Fun for singles and partners
- More than 29 possible applications
- 3 high-powered motors
- Body-friendly silicone
- Easy to clean
- Including USB magnetic charging cable
The most convenient variant of toys for couples! A small stimulator with multi-speed vibration is fixed on a finger with a loop. Your hands are free! Ideal for massaging the clitoris, nipples, neck and other erogenous zones. The toy is waterproof, so it will accompany you in a bath or shower.
- Multispeed vibration
- Convenient fixation
Doc Johnson Ultra Harness 20 cm is a set of realistic nozzle and leather panties with a pin with a cut for your own genitals. The magnificent impressive-sized nozzle is made of a soft and delicate to the touch material, its trunk is covered with relief veins for additional stimulation of the vaginal walls, slightly rounded head provides easy penetration, and elastic testicles add sharpness to the sensations. You can try double penetration with the partner to diversify your sexual sensation, Ultra Harness is just created for this purpose.
- Realistic cap with scrotum
- Adjustable size
- With a cut in the genital area
Lelo Loki – a vibrating prostate stimulator with anatomically ideal design is made of safe, hypoallergenic material, As well as safe solo or couple play!
The six modes of vibration and their power are controlled with four inbuilt buttons. Waterproof casing allows for using the sex toy in the shower or bath. The rechargeable accumulator provides up to one hour of continuous work. The set includes a USB charger, storage casing, and instructions to use.
- Two motors
- Rechargeable accumulator
- 6 modes of vibration
With this unique massager Smart Wand Large every couple can afford a professional massage at home! Smart Wand Large from LELO is equipped with a powerful motor.
This is a unique invention - with no analogs. There is currently no other motor of the same size with equal power to Smart Wand Large. Now you can enjoy the professional massage in any place convenient to you and your partner at any time.
Unique technology SenseTouch allows regulating the power of vibration with a single touch. Smart Want Large can be called with confidence a professional massager for domestic use. You can gradually increase or decrease the intensity and speed of the massage by simply touching its surface, selecting the most comfortable option for you in any situation.
- Patented technology SenseTouch™
- Unique motor with no analogs
- Powerful and silent
- 8 modes of vibration
This essential kit includes a super slim waterproof massager, a pliable penis sleeve, graduated orgasm beads – and 2 stretchy erection enhancers. Giving you everything you will need for a long night of fun, in one package!
Perfect for both experienced couples, and newbies dipping their toes into the game. You can’t go wrong with The Lovers Kit.
Now, we can’t have a couple’s sex toys list without some bondage…
So - lastly, we present the 50 Shades of Grey Hard Limits – complete bondage set for erotic submission games. This set is included in the thematic gift collection “50 shades of grey” – and consists of a satin mask and shackles on the wrists and feet, which are also made of satin and equipped with swivel clips and fastening tapes. Play out your favourite scenes along with your wildest fantasies with this saucy set.
- Mask and fetters for arms and legs
- Storage bag
- Stylish design
- The set allows you to fix the partner in a variety of poses
Let’s get comfortable about Sex!
With so much stigma and shame around Sex still heavily present in society, sometimes there can be a sense of guilt around owning sex toys. Therefore, it’s important to break down the ideals involved around sex, to truly open ourselves up to the idea of sex with toys! Whether used for solo purposes, in group activities or with life-long partners, sex toys are there to help enhance your sexual experience in the most varied ways, and with such a large selection here at Secrets Shop – you are more than guaranteed to find the perfect sex toy if you ar beginner or expert.
Now that you’re feeling a little more confident, let’s talk toys, and don’t worry - we’re here to guide you through all the different sex toys you can buy and try, as well as how to stay safe and keep your toys clean. Ready to dabble? Here’s our very own Sex Toy Guide for Beginners. Let’s go…
These little power-packed vibrators are often the first step into sex toys. Although small in stature, they usually do the trick! They’re discreet and easy to use so they make a gentle introduction for newcomers dipping their toes in.
Bullets come in various sizes – from the micro bullet at around 2 inches, like the Fifty Shades of Grey Heavenly Massage Bullet, to slighter larger versions – and while some are single speed, most will have a choice of speeds as well as varying pulsating patterns. Used on the clitoris the buzz creates intense stimulation followed by a heady climax! Bullets may be small but, trust us, they are big on pleasure. And try our wireless vibrators for a hands-off experience that feels, very hands-on!
Bullets are not designed to insert into the vagina, however, they are fun to try on other areas of the body as well as the clitoris, such as around the nipples, perineum, the shaft of his penis, and the top of the thigh. Delicious! Starting to wish you’d tried sex toys earlier?
- Good starter sex toy
- External use only
- Great for a clitoral orgasm
More of our great bullets:
Once you’re confident using a bullet and you’re ready to try penetration, a vibrator is the next step in your sex toy journey if you want to move slowly.
Vibrators come in many shapes and sizes. Generally slimmer and smaller in size than dildos, vibrators are a non-intimating way to introduce penetration to playtime. They can be used in a similar way to a bullet with varying speeds and pulsating patterns to choose from for clitoral stimulation, but with the bonus of penetration for vaginal highs! Some vibrators are smooth, and some have ridges to give increased arousal, such as the () vibrator, which features carefully designed nobbles and ridges to give you a more intense experience. We also have G spot stimulators which work as both a vibrator and a dildo, giving you the best of both worlds.
When using sex toys that involve penetration, it’s always wise to use a lube. You’ll find that sex toys are made from different materials – from glass to metal to silicone – so also check that it’s the right lube for the product (although a water-based lube is suitable for most). Secondly, check the size of the vibrator is right for what you are used to! If you’re not ready for king dong yet, d not worry! There Is a wide variety of vibrators available for all.
- Varying speeds and pulsating patterns
- Good for beginners ready to try penetration or clitoral stimulation
- Vibrators come in many shapes and sizes
- Use lube and check the size before you buy
Top Vibrator picks for you –
- LELO Mona Wave in deep rose
- Svakom Trysta Targeted Rolling Tip Dual G-spot and Clitoral Vibrator Pink
- Fifty Shades of Gray Charlie Tango
- Seven Creations Classic Original Vibrator, purple
One vibrator has become so popular since it was first launched in the 1990s, it deserves its very own entry in this guide.
What’s so special about this bunny-shaped device, so-called because the clitoral stimulator originally looked like floppy rabbit ears? Well, this wonder product for women aims to satisfy the holy grail of both a clitoral and vaginal orgasm at the same time. Swoon! That’s special, right?
The clitoral stimulator normally has a variety of settings, while the shaft works independently with its own speeds and functions, so you can have either or both. Nice to have a choice, isn’t it?
Start by using the clitoral stimulator around the nipples and the top of the thighs for stimulation before placing it on the clitoris whilst inserting the shaft to seek out your G-spot to give you a high like no other! It’s as simple as that. Whether you’re a newbie or an experienced sex-toy lover, the rabbit will be your go-to vibrator for a quick orgasm and it remains probably the most-used toy in any women’s drawer.
- A clitoral and G-spot stimulator in one device
- Rabbits come in different shapes and sizes, so check before you buy
- Easy to use and good for beginners looking for a variety of sensations
- Rabbits are usually waterproof and great in the shower!
So Devine Rabbits:
- California Exotic Embrace Massaging G-Rabbit - Purple
- Rabbit Company G-spot Rabbit - Purple
- Satisfyer Vibes Mr. Rabbit Pink
If the buzz of a vibrator doesn’t float your boat but you want penetrative pleasure, then head to the most traditional of all sex toys: the dildo. Although the penis-shaped dildo has been around since ancient Greece, it remains a firm favorite with men and women partly because they are designed to be so lifelike.
If you’ve never explored dildo options, be prepared to enter a wonderful, colorful world where you can select from a starter-sized 6 inches in length with a 4-inch girth to a mighty-sized dong of 8 inches in length and 6 inches in girth. Choose from realistic ball and cock style dildos, ones made from glass or silicone or jelly; vibrating dildos, double-ended, dildos on a harness, or ones that inflate or dildos that look and feel like floppy willies. Trust us: there is something for everyone. Another tip for those about to sample the delights of the dildo is to check both the length and the girth to make sure it’s a good fit. Like all sex toys, it’s good to build up the size slowly. A dildo with a suction cup is also a good idea as you can enjoy hands-free play. Time for a shower anyone?
- Largely used for penetrative pleasure
- Check both the length and girth is right for you
- Use lube for maximum pleasure
- Choose a suitable cleaning fluid
Our Top pick Dildos:
- Fun Factory Stronic Real - Dark Violet
- Fun Factory G5 Big Boss – Black
- Clone A Willy Pink Kit - Pink
We all know that an important part of sex is foreplay. That gorgeous build-up to an orgasm: slowly increasing the tension and pleasure while leading your partner into a climax.
When you are experimenting with sex toys it’s equally vital to enjoying the journey and not just the destination. Massaging wands are vibrators that are designed to be used all over the body to soothe, relax and then tempt and tease you before being used for penetration.
Wands are normally made from smooth silicone and curved in shape with a larger bulbous head for penetration and a tapered end for use as a massager. Both ends have a vibrating option like the Doxy Original Wand Massager, which has a variety of speeds, settings, and pulsating patterns to choose from to get you tingling in all the right places.
Power is important with wands. When using it as a massager you need to feel the vibrations penetrate your skin and when it’s time to orgasm… well, we’ve never heard anyone say, ‘Just a mild tingle please’!
- Wands can be used for external and internal use
- Wands can be powerful so read the reviews before you buy
- Choose a wand with a variety of settings
Our Wanderful Wands:
- Doxy Original Wand Massager - Pink
- Le Wand Rechargeable Massager - Grey
- California Exotic Inspire Ultimate Wand
Anal play used to be a taboo subject consigned to a box labeled ‘fetish’. Thankfully, a more liberated approach to sex in all its wonderful guises means that more of us are dabbling with anal sex as well as toys that are designed to stimulate the anus and rectum – an area that has more nerve endings than any other part of your body. More nerve endings, the greater the sensations, right?
Although anal sex is no longer considered to be a no-go area for heterosexual couples, it remains a truth that anal play isn’t for everyone. So, if bum fun doesn’t float your boat, please feel free to move on swiftly to the next chapter of this guide… however, if the thought of stimulating your anus gives you a tingle, butt plugs are a great way to increase the intensity of an orgasm and build up to anal sex.
Butt Plugs come in all sizes, from pinkie-esque beginner plugs to strapping biggies for those experienced in anal play; for a bit of butt bling, CanWin Anal Plug has a jewel-adorned bottom to add a bit of extra sparkle to play. Start small and build up as you get more used to the sensation of having something inserted into your butt. At first, it may feel like you need to use the toilet, but just relax and you’ll soon adjust. Design-wise butt plugs are tapered for easy insertion, and they should always have a flared base. You definitely don't want anything disappearing up there unless you fancy a red-faced trip to A&E!
Unlike the vagina, the anus doesn’t self-lubricate so it’s really important to use plenty of water-based lube on both the plug and yourself. Many people avoid anal play because of concerns that it will be painful but with plenty of lube, a gentle approach, and the right size plug, you’ll be butt happy!
- Start small with beginner-sized plugs
- Use plenty of lube designed for anal play
- Always use a toy with a flared end
Our Top Plugs:
- B -Vibe Anal Education Set - Blue
- CanWin Anal Plug - Gold
- Doc Johnson A-Play Thrust Adventurous Anal Plug with Remote - Black
Why should girls have all the fun we hear you ask? The sex toy market might seem like it's predominantly catering for women but there is an array of toys designed specifically for men, the most popular of which is the Cock Ring. These can start with a simple and effective device, like Oxballs Cocksling’s to more complicated set-ups that involve multiple cock and ball rings with additions such as butt plugs, dildos, and vibrators.
Cock Ringswork by allowing blood flow into the penis but restricting blood flow out ensuring a harder, longer-lasting erection and a delayed but more intense orgasm. Most cock rings are made from a flexible material, such as silicone, but some are made from metal. If you’re using a flexible cock ring it can be put on before or during an erection (but only put metal rings on when you are soft). Using plenty of lube, stretch the ring and lower it to the base of the penis or stretch it under the balls if you have a cock or ball ring… then sit back and watch your erection grow. Simple, right?
Some important points:
- Don’t wear cock rings for more than 30 minutes
- Measure up first to get the right size cock ring
- Use plenty of lube
Our Captivating Cock Rings:
Love Eggs and Jingle Bells
Why keep play in the bedroom? A little bit of clandestine stimulation never did anyone any harm. Love Eggs and Jiggle balls are toys that are designed to be worn on the go and these little beauties fit nice and snug inside the vagina so that you can carry on with your day as normal… just with a little added extra frisson!
A love egg looks like a short, fat bullet that vibrates and is operated by remote control so that you can set it to different speeds and functions. Whereas Jiggle balls are two, small marble-shaped balls that move around inside you stimulating the G-spot. Both eggs and balls have a loop so they can be easily removed, so don’t worry!
Secretly wearing a love egg or jiggle balls will give you a warm glow and a happy little smile. It’s a subtle experience. A bonus is that both the egg and balls can have health benefits as they exercise the pelvic floor, improving bladder function and producing more intense orgasms. A win, win!
- Choose love eggs and jiggle balls that are made from silicone
- Wear them all day, but not all night
- Look after your eggs and balls by cleaning them after use
Our Lovely Love Eggs